for the record.
a few weeks ago i had someone say to me, in reference to my relatively clean house, "yeah, i'd like a clean house too, but i like playing with my kids."
really? did you say that out loud to me?
well guess what...i play with my kids every day. i can also keep up with laundry and keep my house relatively clean.
it's not because i am wonder woman or that i neglect my kids.
it's because i am super organized. and i make it a priority over many other things. but never people.
i'd like to think i am teaching my kids responsibility.
i keep up with our dirty clothes because there are many who would love to have so many clothes.
i wash and put away our dishes because many have to eat with their hands.
i keep my home neat and tidy because so many have to live in dirt houses...or cardboard...or are homeless.
we put away the toys at the end of their playtime because there are many kids who aren't afforded toys.
i try to teach my kids a lesson behind every chore.
i make my kids do their chores before having fun because i want them to be functional in the real world. our family motto is
"do what you HAVE to, so you can do what you WANT to".
that's real life. you have to work before you get paid.
my goal through all my actions through the day is to show God that I am THANKFUL for what He has given me and i want to take good care of it.
and i want my kids to learn the same.
my goal is to raise kids who aren't self-centered or think that their pleasure should come before anything else. which is hard work considering that society tends to tell us the opposite.
we are a family, who work together toward common goals...and then we all get to share in the fun stuff. and we do have FUN. i promise.
it's all about balance. and priorities. and life lessons. and life skills for that matter.
i am, after all raising future husbands.
all i am trying to say is that clean house or messy house.
it's not what makes a mom good. if only it were that easy.