what i wish i could tell you. vol. 2 num. 1

Welcome to "What I wish I could tell you"...an anonymous platform for bloggers to share what they don't feel free to share on their own blogs.  If you have a story/thought/ache/hurt/feeling/secret/prayer request you want to get out, feel free to email me at crystal @ littlebitfunky.com.  
You will remain anonymous to all but me unless you choose otherwise. 
The author of this entry has chosen to stay anonymous.  Say hello to anonymous number 1.
The choice you make to not support our decision to adopt kills me everyday. You supported my brother as he went through it with his wife. Just because we haven't waited as long as they did for a baby doesn't mean we're making the wrong choice. Just because we decided not to do all the infertility treatments like they did first doesn't mean we're wrong. We pray every single day about our decision to make sure we're doing what God would have us do. We're not making a rash decision or "wasting our money buying a baby". Please just respect the choice we're making and pray with us and for us because it's not easy at all! Tell us you're proud of us for being able to do what we feel called to. If you can't do that just please don't make negative remarks to us anymore.

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Megan Linares said...

I'm so sorry for the pain this negativity and lack of support is causing you. It is so difficult when people who are important to us don't encourage us in our well thought out and prayed out decisions. What an incredibly difficult and powerful journey you are on to adopt. I pray that you receive all the strength and encouragement you need from the Lord. I know he will provide it.

Emily S said...

Thanks for providing this space for people Crystal. I pray that it encourages and blesses people.

Anonymous 1- that is so hard. I am so sorry you are going through this. My heart hurts for you.

Bunnyslady said...

To who ever wrote this post:

My heart breaks for you that you do not have the loving and supportive family or friends that you deserve. Everyone is entitled to their own journey and is no less entitled to achieve their own dreams. I pray that your dreams and prayers will be answered quickly. There is nothing wrong with the decision that you have made. We are here for you if you need support.

Kristen O.

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