coming home - a huggies post

I've been asked by BlogHer and Huggies to take some walks down memory lane and explore some (what I think will be) FUN subjects about babies and having them and getting ready for them and all the fun stuff that goes with THEM! I volunteered for this series for selfish reasons. I think it will be a great way to document some thoughts and feelings that maybe I haven't before but should have. I hope you will enjoy them, too!

I can clearly remember the day we brought Moses home from the hospital. It felt so strange to walk out of there with this tiny little person that wasn't with you when you came there. Both Doug and I felt like we were doing something wrong as we crossed the threshold of the hospital and walked to our car. I think we both were thinking that surely someone would stop us from just TAKING this baby away with us. It is so surreal and strange to leave with someone that you are 100% responsible for in every single way.

It is a very strange feeling to put that teeny little person in their carseat for the first time, make sure they are buckled in the right way, and carry them off to a new life. All the while wondering if they are warm enough, too warm, are they hungry or tired or will they stay awake? Can they make it home before needing to be fed? How will you know if they've had too much to eat or not enough?

Oy! Being a first time mom is crazy overwhelming. A good way to make those first days a little less crazy is to do your research! You can Google the reviews on just about any baby product. Do this with your carseat and then head on over to your local police or fire department. A lot of time they will make sure it is installed properly. One less thing to worry about.

If you are unsure how to dress your baby for the season, bring two to three different outfits and choose one based on the weather. October in our area can be anywhere from chilly to summer like so thankfully we came prepared with a couple of different outfit choices. Having a blanket or two on hand helps broaden your choices even more.

Have meals in place and know who will be in your home when you arrive.

The good news is that you will make it home. I also clearly remember walking in our front door, sitting Moses on the coffee table in his little bucket carseat and looking at Doug thinking "Now what?" And here, nearly six years later we find ourselves asking the same question.

"Now what?"

Motherhood is a crazy adventure...and what they never ever tell you, is that it never gets easier. The problems and challenges just change.

Be sure you read up on all my other Huggies posts HERE! There's some good stuff in there!

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i'm curious - chime in. :)

We're approaching our first birthday with a child in elementary school.  It changes things a bit in that Moses has this huge pool of people that could potentially be included in his birthday celebration, but Doug and I have concluded that we aren't that family. 

I find huge kid parties overwhelming and Moses is naturally introverted so that made our decision of who to include easy: we let Moses pick who he wants to come.  As it turns out, he chose four boys from his class whose names I hear often.  He's happy, we're happy. 

We will be sending invitations in the mail or via email and we've talked to Moses about being sensitive to others in regards to his party.  We will also be sending treats to share with the whole class on his birthday so everyone is included on some level.    

I asked the question on my Facebook page: What side are you on: everyone should be invited to the party or let your child choose?  And the answers were both interesting and varied. 

While I don't feel the need to invite every child in the class, I would also never allow Moses to exclude one or two people purposely.  I would never hand out invites in front of other children or allow Moses to make others feel bad about not coming. 

My kids have been excluded from things in the past and I am sure it will happen again in the future.  That's part of life right as I see it and a chance to teach them valuable lessons.  I don't think less of the parents or the kids who have excluded my kids but maybe that's not normal of me.  Of course, I also don't believe in participation trophies there is that.

So I'm curious...what's your stance?  Does everyone get an invite or do you let your child choose?

proof of good in the world.

I just LOVE this video.  Could not watch without tears because I just know it would be like this for either of our boys. 
Here's the boys with their versions of "ah ah"..."doggy" and "koufax".

what I made for monday - mini pumpkin pies - and mini mini pumpkin pies

Hello friends!  I hope you enjoy this mini pie recipe as much as you enjoyed my last one!  This one is even easier than the mini-apple pies!  Tis the season for all things pumpkin and I just couldn't hold out making something to suit the tiny feeling of fall in the air.  Want to make some mini pumpkin pies and/or some mini-mini ones?  Let's do it!  
Here is what you need:
1 15oz can of pumpkin
1 12oz can of evaporated milk
2 eggs
2 tsp pumpkin pie spice
3/4 cup sugar
1/2tsp of salt
2 boxes of ready made crust (how many you use will determine if you need three or all four)
Pillsbury makes me feel like I don't have to make pie crust from scratch, it's pretty good.  
You will also need a cookie cutter (or some sort of circle) that is about this much bigger than your muffin tin, both the regular and the mini one.

You should also lightly spray your pans with cooking spray.
Unroll your crust and cut out circles, lay the circle on top of the muffin hole and gently press down to the bottom.  From there gently press the crusts to the sides, covering the whole muffin cup.  Once I cut out as many circles as I can with the pre-rolled out dough, I combine it together and roll it out again and again. 

I made the edges look a little nicer by pressing the edges with a fork. 

This recipe will make 24 mini pies, 48 mini mini pies or 12 mini pies and 24 mini mini pies.  So cut out circles according to what you want to make.
Combine sugar, pumpkin pie spice and salt together with a whisk.  Beat eggs and then slowly combine pumpkin and add sugar mixture to that.  Once that is all combined, stir in the evaporated milk.  
I used a 1/3cup measuring cup that wasn't quite full to fill the regular muffin cups.  I used 1/4cup measuring cup that wasn't quite full to fill each mini muffin cup.  
Fill all your mini pie shells to just below level with muffin pan top.

Bake at 350 for 35-40 minutes for the regular sized ones and 25-30 minutes for the mini ones.  Check done-ness by putting a knife in the center, if it comes out mostly clean they are done.  
Enjoy with some fresh whipped cream and a sprinkle of pumpkin pie the forkful or by the bite! 

This batch made me 12 regular mini pies and 24 mini mini pies. :) I am guessing that if you make all regular size you would get about 24 and if you make all mini pies you would get about 48 bite sized ones. 

The 12 regular and 24 minis used three of the four crusts that I bought. :)

Here's a recap for you:

Mini Pumpkin Pies by Little Bit Funky
1 15oz can of pumpkin
1 12oz can of evaporated milk
2 eggs
2 tsp pumpkin pie spice
3/4 cup sugar
1/2tsp of salt
2 boxes of ready made crust (4 total crusts though we will only use 3 for the combo I did here)

Spray pans.  Decide what size you want to make and roll and cut crust and use to line muffin tins.
Combine dry ingredients.  Beat eggs and add pumpkin in.  Add sugar mixture and then add in milk. 
Fill crusts to nearly full.  

Bake at 350 for 35-40 minutes for the regular sized ones and 25-30 minutes for the mini ones.  Check done-ness by putting a knife in the center, if it comes out mostly clean they are done.  

Have fun making tiny pies and feel free to pin this recipe and share with others! :) 

what i made for monday - zucchini cardamom bread

3 cups flour
1 tsp salt
1 tsp baking soda
1 tsp baking powder
3 tsp cinnamon
1 tsp cardamom (or more to your taste)
3 eggs
1 cup veggie oil
2 1/4 cup sugar
3 tsp vanilla extract
2 cups shredded zucchini

Preheat oven to 325. 

Combine first six dry ingredients.  Add eggs and oil.  Combine.  Add sugar and vanilla.  Combine well and mix zucchini in until blended through.  

Bake in two 9 by 4in pans that have been greased or lined with parchment paper.

Bake for 40-60 minutes or until a knife entered in the center comes out clean. 

Freezes well!

what i made for monday - easy oreo truffle bar - only six ingredients!

Oh man.  I know I say this a lot...but you are really not going to like me for showing you these.  They are AMAZING.  A close number two to the No-Bake Peanut Butter bars from a few days ago.  
I found a recipe for these on Chef in Training and tweaked it a bit.  Brownies are one of those things that I don't feel needs to be made from scratch.  So I don't.  I hope you enjoy my simplified version of these AMAZING Oreo truffle bars.

All you need is:
your favorite box brownie mix (and the ingredients listed to prepare them- oil and eggs)
one package of Oreos
5 oz of cream cheese
10oz of chocolate candy coating
I used chocolate...but you could try white chocolate or peppermint? 
Line your brownie pan with parchment paper or treat the pan per directions on the box.  But really, if you aren't using parchment paper when you bake, your life is harder than it needs to be.

Bake the brownies as directed in a 9 by 13in pan and leave them in the pan when done. 
 Meanwhile...get out your handy food processor...or use a ziplock bag and hammer of sorts...
And crush the Oreos into a fine mixture with no big lumps. 
Add the crumbs to a mixing bowl...
And add in the cream cheese.  Mix until it's all incorporated together.  
Spread the Oreo and cream cheese mixture on top of your cooled brownies.  
Spread until smooth...
Melt the candy coating in the microwave according to the directions on the package.  My chocolate said to heat for 20-30 seconds, stir, heat, stir, etc until smooth.  You could also use a double boiler for this, too.  Once it's fully melted, pour on top of Oreo/cream cheese/brownies.  Spread all over.  Sprinkle the still melted chocolate with broken up Oreos, sprinkles, candy bits, etc.      
Once it is set, use your parchment paper to lift the bars out in one big piece. 
Using a SHARP knife score and cut into just the chocolate shell...
Then with a plastic knife or spreader cut into the bottom layers.  This will keep the brownies from sticking to your knife.  

Enjoy and share with friends!

Inspiring good in our kids - a sponsored post

I don't know about you...but I'm raising kids who will make a difference in the world and stand up for what they believe in.

It's so tough, in a world so full of corrupt thinking and ways, to teach children to navigate the world in a way that is loving but also firm in the belief of what is right. It's so hard when your kids may be surrounded by people making wrong choices or maybe just different choices than your family would make.
As my kids get older, the problems get more complex, the answers get trickier to navigate as you weave in and out of the areas they understand at their ages, both emotionally and spiritually. At the end of the day we spend most of the time talking about loving others.

I work hard to model love to my boys as the best way to inspire change in others. The boys and I show love to our mailman, to our UPS carrier, to their teachers and peers. I involve the boys in choosing items and drawing pictures for our Operation Christmas Child boxes every year as a way to love someone they don't even know. We donate toys and clothes to charity together.

We are teaching our kids to live out Proverbs 16:24: Pleasant words are a honeycomb, sweet to the soul and healing to the bones.

We are loving to each other, to our friends, to our family and to the people in our neighborhood. As they get older they will see us model this kind of love to all sorts of people we come across...even those we don't agree with because at the end of the day, there is not a more powerful change inducer than love.

I was excited to see Fox's new movie trailer "Won't Back Down" because there seems to be so few movies these days that inspire good change. Our society seems to focus on the bad, the sad, the ugly and the things that tear down our society.

In case you haven't heard about it here is Fox's description: Maggie Gyllenhaal and Viola Davis play two determined mothers, one a teacher, who will stop at nothing to transform their children's failing inner city school. Facing a powerful and entrenched bureaucracy, they risk everything to make a difference in the education and future of their children.

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Daily I am reminded in our own little neighborhood, just how good God is to us.  This double rainbow is a bold reminder but regularly I can find smaller examples of how awesome God is (bigger ones too sometimes!).

I encourage you, if you need a little reminder of the Saviors love and how he still looks after his people...take some time to read my Ebenezer encouraged and set out to set up your own...

before and after...

I turned a $10 meh stool into an awesome addition to my kitchen!

The best part is that I DIY'd my own vinyl!  Anyone interested in how to do that?  Hang in there, I'm working on a little how to! :) 

Pregnancy test and beyond - a huggies post

I've been asked by BlogHer and Huggies to take some walks down memory lane and explore some (what I think will be) FUN subjects about babies and having them and getting ready for them and all the fun stuff that goes with THEM! I volunteered for this series for selfish reasons. I think it will be a great way to document some thoughts and feelings I haven't before but should have. I hope you will enjoy them, too!

So what you may not know about me is that we got pregnant on our honeymoon with Moses. Unexpectedly so, not planned by us but almost six years out clearly planned by someone more in control.

As you can imagine, a couple of short weeks after returning home from our honeymoon, I knew something was awry. My "lady functions" were like clockwork and the clock was stalled. I vaguely remember mentioning it to Doug the DAY that it missed. The very next morning we took a test. So basically, within 24 hours of being overdue, we knew we were pregnant. Approximately 3 weeks into a new marriage, we had new BIG news. You know what most people do? Keep it on the down low for several weeks. You know what we did? We called people the day of.

Yeah, we are those crazy people.

It was a whirlwind year for us. We got married, had a baby, got a job promotion, moved to a new city, quit my job, bought a new house...all in about a year and a half. But that's a story in itself.

I'm pretty sure that within the week we had a doctors appointment. I was fortunate with both of my pregnancies that we lived near colleges that stocked the local hospitals with excellent doctors and nurses. In both cases, we managed to stumble into excellent practices full of awesome doctors. We may have had a recommendation from friends but I think Google was the most pivotal in our doctor research.

How about you? How did you know you were pregnant? How soon? How did you find a doctor you loved?
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how to replace your iphone 4 screen - resources for doing it yourself

I lived my nightmare this week.  Talk about first world problems.  My iPhone just flew out of my hands and landed face down on the tile.  I knew before I picked it up that my number had come.  I also never pay for an insurance plan.  I figure the money I save over time there makes up for what I will have to put out to replace or fix a broken phone and usually that is true.

In this case it was definitely true.  I fixed my completely broken iPhone front for around $35 total.  It was either that or pay $550 for a new iPhone since I can't get a discount with my account renewal until February.  I did it myself, with the help of You Tube and Amazon.  And I'm here to tell you that if I can do can do it too!  Especially if you are like me and just need it to make it a few more months for a replacement.  

I ordered THIS KIT  from Amazon for about $25 and paid extra for it to come in 24 hours.  I was mostly happy with the kit except that the phillips head screwdriver was a little too big and the new face didn't come with a speaker screen.  If you keep those two things in mind, you can be prepared and just transfer the old speaker screen to the new.   
The first thing I did before starting was to place clear tape over the broken face of my phone to save my fingers from being sliced up.  You might not need to do this if you just have a little crack but as you can see...I did serious work on my phone.  
Besides the new face, this is what came in the kit.  A star screwdriver, a flat head and a phillips head, two blue puller uppers and a suction cup.  
 The first thing you do is remove the two star screws. 
 ...slide up the back and it pops off.
Then you get down to business...and touch things that you should never have to touch.  
I was planning on doing a step by step but I got too involved in what I was doing so I will just refer you to THIS video to take it apart and THIS video to put it back together.  Fixing it yourself is totally doable.  I am not a "tech" person and even I will admit it was easy, even if it was tedious.  

Helpful hints:
--I would recommend taking a photo of each step for your own help in reassembly.  I may or may not have ended up with a couple of extra parts.
--Have magnetic screwdrivers. 
--Have a large flat workspace.  In my case I used my cutting mat.  It made keeping track of TEENY screws a lot easier and the bright background was helpful.
--Wait until your kids are not around. 
--Breathe and have chocolate on hand.
At the end of the day, I fixed it nearly to the state it was before.  My only tiny issue is that my power button doesn't work, but that doesn't bother me since I never really used it anyway and my phone is set to power off after a minute. 

There is also a small mark on my photos but I can totally work around it.  Both things I can easily live with until February and a small price to pay to save $550.

My sound on/off button works better than before so at least there is that. 

So if you find that your number is up...there is hope.  Have a little confidence in your ability and jump in! Just be aware that this would probably void your warranty and you may be able to sweet talk an Apple nerd to fix it for you.  If that fails, at least you know you have an option!

Also, I was in Best Buy within minutes of fixing it buying an Otterbox. :)

Odwalla - a guest post

I was delighted to be asked by BlogHer to share this episode of Weelicious Lunch Crunch sponsored by Odwalla Fruit Smoothies For Kids with my readers. Enjoy!

First days of school...

Thursday was my first day of having TWO kids in school...and let me tell you...I already feel like a better mother. :)

raising my ebenezer - how Moses saved Aaron

Yes, I realize that I have completed my story on our house and moving and all that.  But I keep feeling this nagging (or maybe it's a gentle nudging) to keep this series open ended.  After all, God uses each intricate detail of our life as part of a bigger story.  The details alone may not seem all that awesome but when you take the time to step back and look, you may be amazed at what you see.  So for now, as the stories come, from formation or memory, I will use this spot as a way to share the miraculous things that God has done for me and I hope it will encourage you to do the same, because He does indeed work miraculously in all of our lives.  
This story is a tough one for me to share.  It still makes me highly emotional and you will see why.  You may not know, because I don't talk about it much, but I wholeheartedly believe that Moses saved Aaron's life long before Aaron was ever born.  I fully believe that the details of Moses' birth set into motion actions that saved Aaron's life.

Let's start from the beginning.  I naturally went into labor with Moses.  We watched the season premiere of Lost with friends, with minor random contractions all through the show and went home.  We got home and the contractions were still irregular, I wasn't alarmed and pretty sure I told Doug "If this IS it, we will need our sleep."  So we went to bed.  I woke up at 2:30am to my water breaking.  Still no major contractions.  Got ready, went to the hospital and shortly after was informed that I was too far along for an epidural.  SAY WHAT?!  I am NOT a natural birth advocate.  I wanted drugs.  As far as I was concerned, unless a natural birth would make my baby cuter, my butt smaller and my baby weight FALL off, I was not interested.  But I was denied my precious epidural.  I hallucinated from the pain it was SO bad.  They did give me something that did NOTHING.  I felt every bit and Moses was born a very swift four hours after my water broke.  No one could believe he came so fast.  Every doctor that I have ever mentioned that to is shocked that a first baby came so fast.  They tell you that the first takes forever, in general.  Not the case here.  Little Moses was born at 6:24am or so.  He was also born with the umbilical cord cinched around his little neck.  Thankfully it wasn't too tight or too far gone and all was well.  Little did we know what foreshadowing we had just witnessed.  
Fast forward less than two years later.  Moses is awesome and we love him of course.  He's such an easy baby that we are ready to try again and get pregnant with ease. 

Now let me tell you, at this point my feelings on drugs with birth had not changed.  From the moment of conception, I knew I wanted an epidural when Aaron was born.  I am not kidding when I say that from my very first prenatal appointment with Aaron I advocated and BEGGED to be induced.  There was something in me that would NOT let my doctors ignore me or my requests.  It was more than just not wanting to deal with the pain.  Something more was pushing me to make SURE that I was induced.  Doug was working overnights and we were alone in Charlottesville.  God laid all of these details in our path to ensure that I kept begging.  I am sure that not a single visit went by without me bringing it up.  By the last third of our pregnancy it was the first and last thing I talked about with every doctor. 

I would relay how fast my first came, how the second is supposed to come twice as fast, how my husband worked nights, how I was alone with a two year old on those nights with no one to call.  I was insistent beyond any earthly reason that I MUST BE INDUCED. 

Finally they relented.  I don't know if I just annoyed them enough or what, but they finally scheduled my induction for a time that was before my due date but also safe for the baby.  And let me tell you people, all the while this induction was not for my convenience.  I didn't WANT a nice afternoon birth or it to fit nicely in my schedule.  There was something more that was driving me, and I am sure crazy pregnant hormones didn't help the matter but deep inside me I KNEW that it needed to happen this way.

So one happy day in February we got the call to come in, we left Moses at home with a sitter and went off to the hospital.  We got checked in and shortly after starting the induction they offered me my precious epidural.  I gratefully accepted.  I also remember them asking Doug if he would like to cut the cord and of course he did, just like with Moses. 

Things went smoothly, some pushing happened and Aaron was born.  Completely silent. 

Even in my stupor I knew something wasn't right. 
They didn't let Doug cut the cord. 
They didn't hand him over to me. 
They didn't even let me see him. 
Doug was by my side and I may have yelled for him to go to Aaron. 
They had taken him to the incubator to work on him.
I couldn't see what was going on.
Somehow I learned that the cord was around his neck and they were having trouble getting it off, it was so tight.  SO tight. 

I'm not sure how long he was quiet but it was long enough to scare me.  I remember thinking SCREAM SCREAM SCREAM.  I waited and begged for him to SCREAM.

Then he did.  He did.  He did. 

The most glorious noise ever. 

It may have taken a few days or hours but eventually I was able to connect the dots.  If Moses' birth hadn't been so painful and quick we would have had no reason to insist on an induction with Aaron.  There would have been no reason for alarm.  No push to get it scheduled.   I would never even had considered induction. 

And I firmly believe that given another couple of hours or days at the most we wouldn't have Aaron today.  He was born just in time.  Just before the cord was too tight.  Just before he couldn't breathe anymore.  Just in time.   

Moses' hurried entrance into the world set into motion the actions we would take to welcome his brother just in time.  God used my pain for good.  And He always does.  He always does.   

pallet to coat rack - another pinterest win

It takes a while to get settled into a new home.  When we moved into this house there was no need for anywhere to hang a jacket or a was summer and we didn't use those things.  As school has started and the mornings have become cool enough for a jacket, it became apparent that we needed a better solution than the back of the dining room chairs or the floor by the door.

I started looking into tradition coat racks.  You know, the tall, weapon shaped, spears that were not only ridiculously expensive but guaranteed to be knocked over repeatedly.  My next stop in the search was pinterest.  I found THIS genius post by Shelterness and knew I had my where to find the perfect pallet? 
My husband to the rescue.  He came home from work with a pallet that was made not only for the project but also for the very space I had in mind to hang it.  All I did was spray paint it black, then white primer and then painted all the different colors.  Then I gave it a good sanding.  The black and white layers give it great texture when you sand it.  
Then I added a bunch of industrial type hooks and attached it firmly to the wall.  
Done in a day.  And now we have a great place for all the jackets and bags to come that can't be turned into a weapon!

my favorite...

I almost love the convenience and quality of my camera phone as much as my "real" camera. 

What's not to love about being able to capture a moment like this in an instant?

I'd love to see your favorite phone photo!  Hop on over to my FB page and leave it there for me to see or leave a comment with a link to your blog post! :)

Happy Wednesday!

what I made for Monday - no bake peanut butter and chocolate bars - (OH MY GOSH amazing!!)

You will hate me for telling you about these.  Then love me.  Then hate me.  Then love me.

But these may be the most amazing thing I have made for a Monday yet.  And I have made a lot.

Here's how you make them.  And it's imperative that you make them TODAY.

No Bake Chocolate Peanut Butter Bars
1 1/2 cup graham crushed graham crackers 
1 lb powdered sugar
1 1/2 cup creamy peanut butter
2 sticks butter, melted.  I always use salted.
12oz of chocolate chips (one bag) 
1 spoonful of creamy peanut butter

Combine graham cracker crumbs, powdered sugar, peanut butter and melted butter in a large bowl until combined. 
Line a 9×13 pan with parchment paper and press the mixture into the bottom evenly.

Melt chocolate and spoonful of peanut butter in a double broiler until melted and smooth.  
Pour chocolate over peanut butter mixture and spread out evenly.  
Place pan in the fridge just until set and then cut into bars.  Try not to eat them all yourself. 
Recipe adapted from the one I found at "Tell Love and Chocolate". :) 
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