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40 Ideas - Number 8 - Fabric Scrap Monograms!
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So very fun! Thank you Lindsey! Be sure to check her lovely self and blog at The Pleated Poppy!
t-ball 2012
He had fun. Learned about baseball and how to be on a team. It was a good experience for him and I'm glad we refused his request to quit.
This pretty much sums up t-ball.
Too bad all sports games aren't limited to 45 minute games and practices once a week!
40 Ideas - Number 7 - Water Balloon Pinata!
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The boys were excited. I bought the bigger normal party balloons because I though they would be better (and prettier).
I tied up a clothes line between two sturdy fence posts. You could use tree branches. Just make sure whatever you tie it to is strong because a lot of water balloons can get heavy.
And I turned them loose. They beat them with everything they could find. NOTHING. Water noodles, bats, hitting, etc. Nothing doing.
I let them poke at them with forks. They thought it was funny. I don't advise this method.
Even if they did like it a lot.
As you can tell from this face, it took a lot of work.
So I started over. I got out my cheap water balloons from the dollar store. Filled them up and strung them back up there. FYI: I filled up the balloons, tied them off like normal and then tied them up to the string. You may be able to attach them with clothespins. Mine were packed. As you can tell, Aaron was over it at this point.
Success!! The boys really did love it. Despite our road to getting there.
So my tips...buy cheap balloons and give them a stick. :)
Good-bye Charlottesville!
I thought it would be fun to highlight some of my favorite memories from our home of five years!
Enjoy reading some posts from the archives!
Moses turned one, two, three, four and five in this house!
We acquired an Aaron...who then turned one, two and three!
We had a three foot blizzard. And then another one. And then an Earthquake.
We went to Florida a lot!
I started a business! Hello Little Bit Funky!
Hohos were born! :)
We had the worst weekend of our lives.
But best of all...we grew...as people, as parents, as a couple. We will always be thankful for our "time in the desert". We're off to new adventures and starting our forever life in our forever town! :)
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On growing old{er}
Do you think about getting older?
I do but not in what I am assuming is the typical way a woman my age thinks about it. I'll be 33 this year. For some reason 33 seems MUCH older than 32 but not really OLD altogether. For me, getting older is more of a focus on what is going on INSIDE my mind and body than what is going on on the outside.
Some women in their almost mid-thirties may be researching botox and liposuction. Some start crazy diets and exercise regimes that take up huge parts of their days. Others look for ways to cover their gray(ing) hair and wrinkles.
To me, overall, much of that is a waste of my precious life.
I'm not saying exercise and a healthy diet are bad or any of the other things either. I'm just saying, as women, there tend to be segments of our lives where we focus on them more than we should, and the older we get, the more frequent the bouts of "too much" occur.
No, I don't give too much thought to these things past getting my 30 minutes of exercise a day and eating my veggies.
When I think about getting older, I think about Doug's grandparents. To sit with them and listen to stories from their combined 180 years on this Earth is an amazing testament to a life well-lived.
They are full of stories of how they have been helped by others and helped others. How they have made it through tough times and times of bounty. They are known as good, generous, God-loving people. They will be always remembered as a good example to our kids on how to live your life to the fullest and in wise and longstanding ways.
When I think about getting older, I think about how I will be thought of at 90.
Will my grandkids see the same in me as I can see in the grandparents above? Will I be a reflection of what it means to be a GOOD and deep person and not a reflection of vain battles against aging and old age? When I get to 90 how much regret will I have over things not done or done too much? What kinds of things will I miss about being 33?
Will my kids be happily settled with kids of their own? Will they love God with a deeper fierceness than I have? Will they look fondly on the years of ours that overlapped?
These are the thoughts that swirl through my head when I think about getting older. These are the things that keep me up at night, praying and hoping to be an amazing reflection of a life well-lived. Pushing through the opinions that society at large tries to convince me to embrace about aging and instead breaking through and learning to grasp what matters and pursue ways to spend my precious life that won't leave me as a 90 year old full of regret.
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Happy Fathers Day!
40 ideas - Number 6 - Ding dong donuts!
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First stop- the grocery store for a sunny balloon and some orange juice.
Next stop our favorite little donut shop. The only one in town that makes French Crullers. Is there any other kind of donut worth eating? They picked a fun sprinkle filled assortment (with a few for themselves and their baby sister, of course...)
Then back to the car to decorate the box.
Our friends surprised us with donuts months ago, and it was about time that we got them back. These girls however were not very sneaky at being sneaky.
Thank you Julie, go say hi to her and get your printable at Joy's Hope.
raising my ebenezer . part three.
The funny thing about this series is that I didn't mean it to be a series. I thought I could wrap up the whole long story in one post. And then two. And then three. And now I will just keep writing it until God says I'm done.
This part isn't so much about the journey as it is about a lesson I learned through it. Just today as I was in the shower running through the crazy list of things to be done before tomorrow when the moving truck comes, the utilities that still needed to be transferred, the things still to pack, the walls to still touch up, the email I need to write to our renters, etc, etc, etc. Running through that list I nearly grossed myself out with a realization.
I am realizing a dream we have had for years now. We are going HOME to a place where people I know and love will invest in my boys, where people know us and get us. Where we belong. We are getting something we have longed for and begged God for repeatedly. All that and we have spent very little time savoring the good gift He has given us. Its like we got what we always wanted, chucked it over our shoulders and said, now what's next on the list...pack, move, go, etc, etc. Not that we weren't and aren't thankful and amazed by all He has done to get it all for us but we haven't spent nearly enough time being GRACIOUS.
It's like inviting friends over for dinner and spending the whole time cleaning up after them immediately instead of being WITH them.
It's like being given a delicious cake for your birthday but not taking the time to eat it.
It's like begging my kids to put the toilet seat UP so I don't have to sit in a puddle and then grumbling when I nearly fall IN it in the middle of the night. Hey, at least they're putting it up right? Getting them to put it back down is step two.
How often do we do this? All the time I bet. Beg for something and then not take the time to enjoy it when we get it. Would I want my kids behaving this way? No way.
I don't think this makes us ungrateful, I just think we have to fight a little harder against the society standards of more, better, faster to STOP and enjoy a good gift when it's given. Add to that my "type A" personality and the fact that I've been a single parent for the last month while Doug has lived 2 1/2 hours away and the fact that I've had zero help packing, cleaning, house prepping or with childcare. Given all that, I still should be taking time to enjoy the dream that's coming true. To slow down a little and breathe.
I read something some time back in a devotional that I've thought of a lot lately. God has designed each and every moment of each of our days. He has a plan for what He wants us to achieve and get done and He makes time for all of it. If, at the end of the day, we find ourselves frazzled, crazed and with a huge to-do list still in hand, well guess what? I can promise you that we are doing things that He doesn't want us to do because His plan never leaves us frazzled and crazed.
Would we give our kids a gift and not want them to enjoy it, to play with it for hours and show it off to everyone who would listen yelling "LOOK WHAT MY PARENTS DID FOR ME?"! NO!! We love it when our kids enjoy what we give them.
Don't you just love it when you give the perfect gift and the person beams with Joy from the mere thought of it?
If we, then, though we are evil, know how to give good gifts to our children (and enjoy seeing them enjoy it!!), how much more will our Father in heaven give good gifts to those who ask him (and how much does he love to see us enjoy them??!!)! Matthew 7:11.
I'm off to savor a little. To do some good for someone else as a way to spread good gifts and give others a chance to savor, too.
I challenge you to do the same.
40 ideas - Number 5 - Sidewalk Paint!
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Crystal at Little Bit Funky contacted me a while back to see if I would like to play along with her 40 Things: Activities To Do With Kids series. I said sure and have wanted to try out this make it yourself sidewalk chalk paint. This project was soooo easy! My kiddos love to paint. They like to paint on paper, pretend paint on the walls, pretend paint each other so I knew they would love this simple and inexpensive summer activity! All you need is corn starch, and food coloring plus a little water and some cheap paintbrushes! I had everything around the house so this project was FREE!

The recipe: Cornstarch and water 2:1 but {{Shhhh}} I didn't measure. I just kept mixing in until I felt it was a good consistency. You want it a bit thick but not as thick as real paint. Just so it will stay on the brush a bit. I mixed this all in a large bowl then poured into a muffin tin. Then started adding the food coloring. Took a little learning opportunity here to teach my 4 year old about mixing colors to make different colors:)

Then bring outside and paint away. This will wash away with rain just like chalk. You may want to bring a little kitchen spoon to stir up the paints outside if needed. Done! Kept my little ones busy for at least an hour and I think it would have been longer if it had been a little cooler out. I even had some fun painting it up!:) Thanks for stopping by and I hope your summer is filled with lots of summery fun!
40 Ideas - Number 4 - Straw Monsters!
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