
...I am successfully
de-stressing the holidays...I really am. You can ask my husband...like I did this morning. :) The proof is in my daily and constant state of "
ahhhhhh"...you know what I mean. Want to know how? I thought you might, so I thought I would share...
mostly I am reminding myself that very little of what I do in a day to day is required of me. The times that I am stressed the most are the times when I put requirements on myself...all I HAVE to do daily is feed and clothe. I am choosing to see anything else as icing on the cake...lucky for me this method is proving to provide a lot of icing.
I am also choosing to live by the motto that "it is the little things that matter"...I can either spend mad hours searching endlessly for THE perfect gift or I can pour my heart into something smaller and meaningful that would mean more in the end anyway. I have nothing to prove by spending more. I continue to live in a daily state of thanks...for Doug, his job and all its perks, for Moses and a healthy baby...for anemia being the only thing that shows up on blood work...for the sweet little baby Jesus. I am also remembering that all the things I really WANT to do, don't all have to be done today...instead I am spreading them all out...for example...I have a list of probably 15 or so people that I plan on sending packages to...so instead of stressing about sending them all out at once...I am just taking 2-3 each time I go to the post office...much nicer. :)
Taking the time to talk about Jesus every day with Moses...even if it seems to be small...he is remembering...every day after breakfast he asks for Jesus aka his devotional...as I read it to him he sits quietly and listens and nods and when I am done says Amen...no joke. I love that boy. :) 
More than anything...I am remembering that the two people I love most in the world are the two I should be focusing on. I want them to have the merriest Christmas of all...and that requires not letting other things be more important. :) How are you
de-stressing your holiday?

And our baby Jesus abduction problem has been solved...I was searching high and low for this lovely Little People set...only to find it sold out everywhere I looked (I started at the Christian bookstore that had I have a 25% off coupon for)...I was even searching and calling stores near relatives to find it...I just about gave up...then my sister in law called me to say she happened to stumble upon one that just hit the shelves!!! :) The best part was that she got it for a recent sale price...making it as cheap as it was with my coupon!! :) We have it set up under the tree and Moses will just lay in front of it, his hands holding his head up and stare at it with this sweet look on his face...listening to it play "Away in a Manger" over and over. :) So, so sweet! :)

And here is a recent project...may seem random to you...unless you are Norwegian...then you will probably understand. :) All of Doug's family are from Norway...all four grandparents immigrated here when they were fairly young...and they are pretty proud of their heritage (all Norwegians seem to be---in a very good way). Doug's license plate says
Norge and he has a Norway sticker on the back as well...these two things alone have caused people to either stop and ask us where we got them or to ask about the Norwegian heritage. Moses and I were leaving a
Lowe's a few weeks ago and a sweet older couple was parked beside us...we got in our car, the older couple pulled out and were pretty much gone...then they pulled back into the spot beside us and excitedly rolled down the window to ask if we were Norwegian. I explained that it was my husbands family that was...which seemed to please this sweet couple and before they pulled away they said "Tell them we said Hi!". :)
Anyway...one of Doug's relatives had me make her a string of Norwegian flags a while back and now she has requested a set of
Puerto Rican ones for her soon to be son-in-law. This time I am using different, more easy to work with materials...so I tried out a couple of Norwegian flags. :) I love them!! The red in the photo is not quite the color they are in real life...it's more a blue red than the orange red that shows...Let me know if any of you Norwegians out there need some of these cuties...

...they will find a happy spot
among the other Norwegian items on our tree...like this one...

...and these. :) And now that I have probably bored you to tears...I am going to find something else to do...like write my Christmas letter. :)
I still want to hear how you are de-stressing your holiday...
xoxo